Summer is here in just under four weeks. Plan accordingly. I'm planning on reinventing myself this summer, again. But first..Things have been a little bit slow and boring lately in a few areas in my life. So I'm making a change. I'm learning new things and I will be sharing these little lessons with you guys as I learn them. This means that I may not post a new lesson for a couple weeks, or I may post one within a couple days of the last one. I don't know, it all depends on how quickly I can learn them.
And so we begin. Lesson 1: Reinvention.
When you want to lose weight, what do you do to increase success? You begin with a cleanse that releases your body of toxins that are holding fats back inside your body. And so I cleanse. In order to reinvent oneself, it is most important to not only let go of the thing holding you back the most (boys, in my case), but also to understand that it is possible to reinvent yourself. You can do it whenever and as often as you please. There are no rules. If you don't like how you see yourself, start somewhere and change it.
My plan (and you will customize this to fit yourself) is to quit fretting about boys. Stop texting them, stop looking for them, just stop it. I'm going to focus instead on working quite a bit and taking care of myself. This is a crucial point in reinvention. Focus on yourself. Little things help like:
1.Moisturize when you get out of the shower.
2.Eat healthier, less food more often.
3.Go to a nice hair salon.
4.Get pedicures.
5.Ditch the little black dress for a spicy red one.
Doing little things like this can help increase your self confidence and make you feel better about yourself. When you're good to yourself, other people will notice and they will be good to you too. And don't we all just crave that flattering attention.
Love this post! I completely agree 100% with everything you just said....girl you are reading my mind. I love that when you are good to yourself other will be good to you as well....this is so true...when I FINALLY was at the end of my rope with the disrespect that I was having from boyfriends, family, friends etc. I made the decision that I was going to give myself the RIGHT to be respected...the change started first in my head then gradually became action. I was able to start translating those thoughts into reality and stopped accepting the way I was being disrespecting. I am at a point now in my life where I can truly say that people who are not willing to upholds the boundaries that I have when it comes to the way I WILL be treated than those relationships discontinue.....
ReplyDeletePowerful stuff....I am loving where you are going with this lesson thing!! Keep blogging, if not for anyone else but ME.....and Nicole of course ;)
Muah xoxo