And the first time you kissed someone?
Everything is sacred the first time around. Experiences lose their luster and brilliance bit by bit the more we try them out. Think of it like making an impression from a mold. The first one is intricate and detailed but, as the mold wears, the lines blur a little bit until it's a hollow representation of its original masterpiece. Life is this way too, but it happens slower.
When you kiss someone the first time, girls build it up to be something big and romantic and entrancing. That's why we wait so long for it. We know that we only get one "first kiss" and we're determined not to screw it up. That works for some of us. For others, not so much. But, after that first kiss with that boy, how long do you wait until you kiss your next guy? It's not as special as the first time so it doesn't really matter how long you wait. You've already had the first kiss that matters. What about when you and a guy start getting close. And I mean really close. The physical stuff starts coming into the picture and starts becoming important. You start thinking about it more. It become a bigger part of you.
I'll let you in on a little tragic secret: once you've had it once, you want it more often. After you've kissed someone, all you want to do is kiss him again. And if you have a guy, that's great. But when it's over, it's going to be one of the only things you can think about. You're going to want that kiss even more as the days go by, and you'll take it when you can. The same goes for the physical stuff, too.
It's a slippery slope you've found yourself on. After the first time, how long do you wait for the second time? How do you know when you've gone too far, too fast? Life isn't always sweet, ladies, but we'll make it out alive.
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