I want to dissect a stereotype today. Girls are much more emotional than boys and are clingy and need constant reassurance of the love of another to feel secure.Holy hell. No, no, no. What evidence do I have of a contradiction to this statement? Myself. I rarely ever tell anyone how I feel about them. Feelings are messy and I tend to avoid them altogether. I have to feel very secure with you to begin with before I tell you how I really feel about you. Here's an example:
1. A friend commented on something on Facebook and made fun of me and then finished it up with "jk i loveeee you!" I didn't respond.
I just can't help it. I don't do serious emotion. It's too much of a hassle and I find that it's much easier to keep these thoughts to myself. I joke with people that I deal with relationships like a guy (sorry, another stereotype). I say what I feel like saying and refuse to care about the consequences.
I mean what I say. Unless I don't like you..then I'm probably lying.
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